Tuesday, May 26, 2026

Chicklet's Middle School Dance Journey

Okay, peeps.

Is it a double-post day????

IS IT?!!!!

I. Think. So.

I'm trying to keep up so I don't have to catch up as we wind down the school year.

Which means it's time to share some precious pics (and I do mean precious, because she never allows me to take any!) of Chicklet's Friday evening Dance Recital at the middle school!













As a refresher...all the kiddos have the option of enrolling in three (yes, three!) electives each year of middle school, and Chicklet's chosen trifecta this year was:

Dance

Theater

Band

And I think she'd put them in that rank order!

Of course, Chica and Chicklet both took several years of dance classes when they were younger, but all of it was ballet/tap--with a bit of jazz thrown in--and nothing much like the freer, feistier style of Chicklet's middle school experience that explored all varieties of dance--from contemporary to ballet, to hip-hop, to what'd I'd classify as pom.

From day one of school, she came home so happy to share bits and pieces of the routines she'd learned, and the love never waned all year long.

It's been a joy to watch my beloved middle-born get back to the movement she's always, always naturally loved!

In fact, as I've watched her dance throughout the year, I've had to ask myself many times WHY it was that she ever decided to quit official lessons???

And the answer to that, I think, is that the more classical style of training was a bit too limiting for her back in the day.

Perhaps I didn't try hard enough to find livelier styles of dance for her, but...you know what? All of that is coulda, woulda, shoulda, and it's never a great idea to start second-guessing decisions of the past, amiright?

All that matters is that she's LOVED her dance class this year--and that's made me love it by proxy!

Chicklet's only other dance performance of the year was about a month or so after school started, when the entire hoard of dance students performed at the Fall Pep Rally. It was so fun then--and just as fun when they repeated the routine last Friday night--along with several others!

With 140 dance studies across three grades, it was a packed gym performance. So I got very little video that showed Chicklet clearly--especially since the 6th graders were at the back of the group.

But I was still so thrilled to get to witness Chicklet performing so many of the dances she's showed us in the middle of the living room--complete with full music and the heightened vibe of a live performance!














Chicklet has such a unique internal response to public performances (it's been the same way with her Band and Theater commitments of late) that we often mistake her vibe afterwards as a little cranky.

Honestly, I think she just pours so much of herself into the public-facing spectacle of it all that she needs a little decompression time before she can talk through the event and interact with us, to a certain extent.

Because of that, it made my heart BURST when Chicklet came down off the emotions of the performance enough to permit a few very precious photos. :)














I gifted her an elusive Nee-Doh as a performance gift, and she kept it on her person--and even permitted me some sensory time with it, ha--the entire weekend. :)

I seriously am so dang proud of her for participating in an activity she enjoys so much--without being daunted by other students' skill levels or the public performance aspect of it all.

She just knows she loves it.

And she wants to do it.

The end.

And for that, I applaud her--big time!

Stay tuned for another Chicklet-centric post tomorrow, after the 6th grade awards ceremony. I have so many thoughts about Chicklet's inaugural year of middle school, and so many things I'd like to share while they're still fresh.

The past few months have been so chock-full of commitments and concerts and performances, but every single one is amazing and representative of so much work and dedication--and Chicklet's Dance Recital was so exception!

So, here's to Chicklet and her Dance Vibes!

May they continue just as happily into her 7th grade school year!

More maƱana, peeps!

Over and out.


Memorial Day Weekend--2026!

Hellooooo, peeps, from the flip side of Memorial Day Weekend!

The official (but really, official) launch of SUMMER!

(I think my beloved Chicklet's vibe here says it all!)













I'm not gonna lie: it's always so wild (and wildly annoying) when the kiddos have to return to school for one, final week, post-Memorial Day.

Chica was literally completing a math assignment last night after our family swim time and it felt so ridiculous and out of place!

That said...she's pretty sure the assignment wasn't even for a grade--and every day this week brings us closer and closer to that free-for-all, school's out vibe!

Tomorrow is the final full day of school.

Then Thursday and Friday are early release days.

The kiddos don't even bring backpacks at that point!

In fact, if it weren't for Chicklet's Theater Banquet tonight, along with both the 6th grade (tomorrow) and 8th grade (Thursday) end-of-year award ceremonies, we could skip school--and town!--and nobody would care.

Alas...we'll trudge through these final, few days with as much stamina as we can muster--until we crawl across that finish line and celebrate, BIG TIME.

Speaking of celebrations...

On Thursday late afternoon/evening, we're hosting the 4th Annual End-Of-The-School-Year Pool Party that's historically just been Chica's friends (as a way of celebrating her June bday early), but this year, we're throwing Chicklet's buddies into the mix, as well, and making it one, big, splashy HURRAH! 

Little Man, Coda and the hubby will flee from the house for a couple of hours, and by the time the evening is done and the kiddos make it through those few, silly hours of the school day on Friday, we're done, DONE!

Amen, HALLELUIAH!

All of the above said...we had such a beautiful Memorial Day Weekend with lots of family time, high spirits and tons of school's-out vibes amongst our crew that it kinda-sorta feels like we've already made it.

It finally, truly believe that summer--and all the levity that comes with it!--is UPON US! And my kiddos' smiles and vibes are proof!


















Beyond a bunch of couch sitting, movie time, cooking, baking, church and just general chilling...I managed to tackle a bit of yard work in the back to spruce up the pool area for all the summertime swimming--complete with fresh outdoor pillows, artificial flowers (or they'd die in the South Texas heat!) for the pots, new pool floats and all the things that signal the launch of family summer swim time!

It's tradition to "open" our pool over Memorial Day Weekend, and we had the best time enjoying the fun and the sun--Coda girl, too!--and sinking (pun intended) into those glorious, slower vibes of June/July.

Alas...pools and yards are glorious, but require a lot of upkeep!

Not only has our pool been extremely high maintenance in the past two months (requiring a whole new pool pump, new auxiliary pump and new breaker--OYE!), but the porch railing is in great need of some paint attention, so I began the project of sanding and painting it, yesterday, and already, it looks so much better!













My greatest accomplishment--above and beyond the actual painting--is that I managed to avoid project creep (a real problem for me).

Yesterday, I only allowed myself to paint the top of the railing and the main posts, while leaving the smaller bars and lower railing for another day.

It made such a visual difference that my soul didn't hurt too terribly to cap my work at just two hours and ENJOY the rest of the day with my family. :) The second half of the project will happen another day...soon. ;)




















All of my kiddos love the water, having grown up for the past seven years with a pool, but Chicklet is such a happy little fish that I can count on her always (always!) being the one to beg to open the pool and get in the water ASAP. 

It was a joy to watch her entire body ease and lighten, thanks to her favorite active pastime.

I think she smiled more this past weekend than she did in the past month, and it made my heart so happy
















The one thing I don't love about family swimming season?

The incremental LAUNDRY, ha.

I had a giant load of beach towels and swimsuits to tackle while everybody else started to wind down for the night, but I suppose that's my burden, and I'll gladly bear it, for the smiles that swimming brings!

Poor Little Man was so wiped (especially thanks to a couple of late bedtimes the few nights prior) that he very nearly fell asleep once he was inside and showered.












A good sign we're doing something right, I think. ;)

I'm SO grateful for such a happy launch to the summer, and I'm doing my best to keep a positive outlook as we tackle these next few busy days before we finally cross the finish line and enter the months of a different kind of busyness--and much-needed respite!

Happy Summer, peeps!

Over and out.

Wednesday, May 20, 2026

Little Man's Inaugural Flag Football Season!

Okay, peeps.

We're trucking along and so fluffing close to the school year finish line!

In the week since my last post, we've experienced approximately 2,743 concerts, events and commitments (I kid, but only a little). The poor hubby is powering through an insane work week, the MAYhem is close to wrapping up, but not quite, and...we're basically just trying to hold on for dear life until we make it to this Memorial Day Weekend!

The kiddos still have school next week, but it's basically just a free-for-all involving a lot of awards ceremonies and half days, so...

The Summer. Is Nearly. Upon Us.

(Heaven help us all!)

I'll try my best to catch-up and share all the lovely milestones we've been hitting over the past few weeks as I'm able to devote brain power to posting.

But, for now, I'm going to share the easiest and liveliest of activities:

Little Man's Inaugural Flag Football Season!
























I'll be honest: if you know me, you know sportsball (of any variety, ha) is not really my thing.

But I've been more than enthusiastic in my pursuit of finding leagues and teams and camps for Little Man's participation, because he's a boy with a lot of energy, and a lot of athletic interests--which I love!

I've been so pleased to see him rotate among so many sports over the years, never honing in on one to the detriment of others, and though that's a questionable tactic in a state like Texas, where many parents push their kids towards one professional sporting track as early as seven years old...I'm sticking to my opinion that I want Little Man to enjoy as many and as varied interests, for as long as humanly possible!

I would follow his lead if he ever expressed a myopic interest, but...for now, he continues to toggle--happily so!--and we just follow!

The hubby has been a rockstar over many years, coaching alternating seasons of soccer and basketball, and helping to shuttle Little Man to his table tennis that he loved for quite some time.

Although I would rank those three sports as Little Man's Top Three, he's always had an interest in football, and that interest has increased as some of his buddies have set their sights on professional teams they follow, or the idea of playing team sports for their school district in the future.

The fantastic thing about living here for as long as we have (!) is that we know people. Parents. Kids. Families with like-minded sons who tend to be game (ha; see what I did there?) for trying out various sports in low-commitment leagues, just to see what hits with their kid.

So when Flag Football floated around the Boy Mom group a few months back, we happily jumped on the bandwagon.

Little Man's team was small but mighty--with only one kiddo on the team who wasn't a friend or already at school with Little Man, and that made for a really raucous season.























I'm sure the hubby would corroborate my opinion that coaching Flag Football might have been his greatest challenge (of the coaching variety) yet. It required a lot more research and preparation. Visual aides. Plays strategized ahead of time. And a greater knowledge base of the game, just to get the kiddos up and running as a team.

The first week/game, Little Man's team was sort of slaughtered by a group who'd played together for several seasons, and I think most of us parents were like: uh oh. What did we get ourselves into? 

But, holy moly, it didn't take long for the team to gel and get in a groove!

With the boost of a weekly Thursday night practice to help them operate as a team, they ended their season with only two losses--the second-best record in the league! And the final game was a runaway victory of 20-0 that left them all pretty high on life. :)
























Little Man even managed an impressive 100-yard touchdown in the final game--along with some sort of 70-yard, reverse-special-double-Philly-whatever-it's-called-something-or-other-he-was-really-proud-of pass. ;) He came home beaming--and exhausted! The perfect sporting combo!

















I continue to be so grateful for the outlet of all these sporting endeavors, for the hubby's willing participation as a coach, and for Little Man's boundless energy and interests.

This summer, he'll be doing yet another round of the Spurs Basketball camp that he's loved in the past--along with the more intellectual sport of...chess, ha.

Oh! One final sporting event to share that I wasn't able to a couple of weeks ago:

Little Man qualified for the 4th & 5th grade Track Meet in the 4x100 relay, and his team won! 















At the risk of leaning too hard into the pun...the hubby and I have absolutely had to pass the baton to one another with all of our many (and overwhelming) kiddo commitments over the past few months.

We're often greeting and fleeting to make it to another event that happens simultaneously for one kid or another, and I'm so grateful to have a smooth partnership on that front. We're both just in the trenches, dividing and conquering and attending all the things in a rotation, as we're able!

It's exhausting! 

But it's the golden years.

So we're in it to win it!

Chica has officially wrapped her athletic endeavors...

https://delappenings.blogspot.com/2026/03/athletic-mind-over-matter.html

Chicklet is officially ramping hers up--beginning this summer with conditioning prep for her very own Middle School Sports Era...

And Little Man will just keep trucking along with all of his toggling for his final year of elementary school (holy goodness; I literally can't).

Whew! That's all so exhausting!

Okay, peeps. More as I'm able--including a lot that might feel a bit more heavily weighted toward Chica as she graduates from Middle School. It's a whole thing. And busy, busy, busy. 

So much to celebrate!

More, soon!

Over and out.