Thursday, February 26, 2026

Chicklet's Confirmation: Nearly There!

Okay, peeps.

It's time to share a major milestone in my Chicklet's journey toward Confirmation of her faith within our church:

Her Pastoral Interview! Completed two days ago!













Backing up for a second...I just have to say that it's absolutely wild that we're nearing the end of Chicklet's Confirmation journey!

As a recap, our church allows for middle school-age children to commit to this process of preparing them to confirm their faith and start taking Holy Communion. It's most common for kiddos to go through Confirmation in 6th grade, and it's essentially a school year commitment of:

- Wednesday night sessions (about every other week)

- Sunday school sessions (weekly)

- Memory Verse work (weekly)

- Sermon Note work (only six reports in total)

- An overnight retreat (in the Fall)

- A daytime retreat (in the Spring) and...

- A Pastoral Interview!

It's hard to believe that Chicklet has now completed all of the above (with the exception of her ongoing Sunday School attendance for the next two months and the small Spring retreat), and even passed the very anxiety-inducing Pastoral Interview with flying colors--and a smile (plus Swedish Fish to celebrate, ha).

Back in my day (don't you just love saying that?) we were subjected to a "quiz" by the pastor in front of the congregation to cap off our Confirmation, and, holy moly was it vomit-inducing.

I'm so glad they don't torture kiddos in that way, anymore. If anything, the Pastoral Interview seems tame by comparison. And, honestly, it's a rite of passage whereby the Pastor gets to have one-on-one convos with every single Confirmand before the big day, and that's kind of wonderful.

That said...the kiddos are still quaking in their boots as they enter the church office building, ha. Goodness, I can so clearly picture how Chica looked ready to pass out when she had to do the very same, two years ago. She was so relieved when it was over!

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As with most things in life, it's so beautiful to see the unique approach each of my kiddos takes toward tackling major milestones. Chicklet has been very chill about her Confirmation process.

In fact, she has always been so solid in her personal relationship with God that she almost approaches all of this Confirmation hullabaloo as red tape that's a bit unnecessary, and I kind of love that about her!

She has an incredible way of cutting to the chase about important matters ("God doesn't care what I wear to church; he knows my heart") that challenges me to look at the world through Chicklet-tinted glasses, and I'm so grateful to see things through her eyes.

Much like Chica gravitated toward a chosen Confirmation verse that suited her perfectly, Chicklet has done the same: 

Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord. "Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

My girl knows that God's got her, and I'm so excited for her to complete this "red tape" journey of Confirming her faith during this really fun year of change and growth. 

Chicklet might have started the school year on shaky ground--like 99.99% of incoming middle schoolers--but she is vibing and thriving, these days.

Humming, smiling, reading (and reading!), putting herself out there for the school participation she's actually interested in, and not getting down when things don't work out. She's breezing through braces and athletics and her school work with her typical, unfiltered nonchalance, and...I'm here for it.

(If only she'd grant me permission for more photo-taking! Argh! She's still a stickler on that one!)











Okay...signing off for now, but more, soon, peeps!

Happy Thursday!

Over and out.


Tuesday, February 17, 2026

A Robotics Valentine's Day!

Okay, peeps.

Lots to catch up on!

When we last left off...the household was recovering from January Hot Mess Express-ness, older bro had come to visit, and was word-vomiting the health trials I'm currently experience, and...I was recounting the Wheels Off vibes of my youngest. 

All. Important. Things.

But then we launched February with better vibes and have mostly maintained that momentum--despite some major setbacks of: 1) Chicklet flu, and, 2) an ACL tear-scare for Coda girl that's still not completely resolved. 

It's always something, right???

Yet, here we are, with only 11 days left in the month, and I'm like: where did it go??????!

Granted, February is a short month, but, still

Zoom, zoom, zoom!

So zoom-y, in fact, that Valentine's has come and gone and I suppose it's best just to report on those happenings, before they pass us by!

So that's our topic for the day: Our Very Merry (Robotics!) Valentine's Day!

Yep, you read that correctly: I said Robotics!













I believe I've mentioned on this here blog that Little Man is participating in the Robotics Team at school, this year (it's only open to 4th and 5th graders, so this has been his first opportunity), and he's been LOVING. IT.

Perhaps no surprise, considering his interest in building things--LEGOs, Crunch Labs, Hack Packs...you name it. It's best to keep him busy--in body and in mind!

Welp.

Some genius (note a tiny bit of sarcasm, here) decided to host the annual elementary Robotics Competition for the district on actual Valentine's Day of a holiday weekend, no less, and to that I'll just say: I have notes. 

And, yet, it turned out to be a really fun day, so while I have notes, I don't have complaints!

Little Man woke that morning (very bright and early, as required, since we had to leave the house at 7:15 a.m., and would be gone until 4 p.m.). He was excited, anxious, and raring to go! And that made my heart SO happy.

Going in blind, not having experienced a Robotics Competition before this, we had no idea what to expect. I just knew that we'd been asked to wear Robotics Spirit t-shirts, make a lot of noise, and show a lot of school pride, so...school pride we showed!

Little Man helped me doodle some adorable robots so I could assemble some posters, and I just love how they turned out!



















(And, don't worry: if Little Man looks giant and OLD in the above pic [taken in Chicklet's room], it's because he IS.)













Okay.

So...posters MADE, prep DONE, high spirits READY to cheer...we set off for the competition and experienced such a new and unique event for our whole crew!

First off: I know this might sound like a crazy admission, but I've known for months that Little Man and his team (there are three teams at his school) were making an actual Robot, but I didn't think about the fact that they were making an actual Robot. Ha.

And, yes, I know this sounds ridiculous.

Of course, Little Man kept me apprised of the trials and tribulations along the way, but it was wild to see the finished product with my own eyes!

It was also wild to see his hard work at play, because he was determined to qualify as a "driver" for his particular team (each team of about seven kids only has two drivers)--which required him to study extensively and take six tests!

He was THRILLED the day he learned he would, indeed, get to be a driver, and at the event, I finally learned what that entailed!

So.

It would take me a million years to explain the particulars, and I still don't understand them, if I'm being honest, but...the gist is this:

Each team has 60 seconds over the course of about seven rounds of competition. During that sixty seconds, one driver controls the bot for 30 seconds and then passes it off to the other driver for the remaining 30 seconds. The goal is, essentially, to pick up and stack these pieces on the board--as many and as high as they can get them.











Obviously, different colored pieces count for different points (I'm assuming, based on the varied positioning of them). And they're always facing off with an opposing team that's working on the other side of the Robotics Competition board, which lends to a sense of urgency and...well, competition!

It was wild to see how focused Little Man was, in preparing the Bot and ensuring it was ready for each round.

It was also wild to see how seriously he was taking the competition (which led to a necessary conversation about good sportsmanship...oye).























All the kiddos were so amazing to persevere through round after round (after hour after hour!) of the competition. And BLESS the teacher sponsors who wrangled them the entire day, as parents were only allowed in the arena as spectators.


















(I'm sharing the above pic with faces, as the school shared it in a newsletter, as well. Meaning: the kiddos were cleared for photo release).














All in all, it was a wild (and fascinating--and stormy!) day for Little Man and his teammates.

They missed the top -10 cutoff that would have sent them into the playoffs, but I'm so stinking proud of the work they put in! Amidst about 35 (I think) schools, they placed 15th (I think) and that sounds pretty amazing to me!

This has been a HUGE source of entertainment and pride for my boy--and something unique to him, that neither of his siblings participated in. I find such great joy in watching my kiddos bloom within their specific areas of interest, and I love (love) that he is all in, 100% ready to apply and participate again, next year. :)

In other Little Man news...he qualified for the school-wide Spelling Bee (without intending to) a few months ago and spent the last few months attending weekly practices and doing 20 minutes of daily work on a spelling app his teacher recommended.

Obviously, this was NOT a thing he was actively trying for, and therefore, his participation was solely of his own volition. The Bee was originally set to take place in December, but the sponsoring teacher fell ill, so it was delayed until about a week ago.

Little Man was thrilled to have a bit of extra time to practice and avoid the public spectacle of it for a bit longer, but the time did eventually come for him to do his thing!

Not gonna lie: it was wildly stressful as a parent spectator!

It took place in the school library and was broadcast live to the entire school. YIKES. There were only about a dozen participating kiddos after quite a few dropped out due to nerves, so I was impressed with my boy, simply for trying.

We had a funny goal of just not getting out on the first word, first round, and he WILDLY surpassed that! 

He was the third runner-up and final 4th grader standing, and though he was disappointed in that and vowed to dominate next year (of course he was; of course he did), I was absolutely delighted.

I'm so amazed when my kiddos are able to do public things that would have sent me fainting in similar circumstances. As they age, I know their ability to withstand these public events might diminish as their nerves increase (or perhaps not), but...the pride is REAL.























I had a gift and an icing-laden cookie cake waiting for him at home (a Bad Bunny one, still leftover from the Super Bowl at the grocery store, ha), and you can better believe we celebrated his efforts--and kept him from spiraling later that night when he was all in his emotions over wishing he'd done even better. Goodness.
























As I'm sure you'll recall from my recent Youngest Kid Wheels Off post, I'm often plagued with guilt that I can't better spread my time amongst all three of my kiddos and their interests/activities.


There's only so much of me to go around, and the most pressing matters often have to receive the greatest attention!

But, despite all of that, my son seems to be trucking all strong and steady.

With advanced coursework, an interest in a variety of brain and brawn pursuits, and a generally-upbeat demeanor...he's doing pretty good. :)

Okay...SO much more to share regarding the rest of the best over Valentine's Weekend, but that might have to wait for another day!

For now: Happy Fat Tuesday, peeps! Goodness! How is it already Lent?!

Over and out.



Wednesday, February 4, 2026

February Joy-Bringers!

Okay, peeps.

If you've made it though my last few weeks of posts, you've noticed a trend of overwhelm, stress, change, health challenges, and just...a lot of heavier content related to our rough January!

I mean...I should have known when I spent New Year's Day with Little Man in the hospital that we might be off to a rocky start, but...

We made it through!

(The month, at least, ha.)

January 2026 is getting kicked to the curb, and we are fully embracing a February of joy and love and light (at least, that's what I'm manifesting!).

And what better way to kick off a fresh new month than a late-breaking sibling visit?!















I knew older bro had a conference here, this week, but I'll be honest: given the chaos of January, the date sort of snuck up on me! And it kind of snuck up on him a bit, too (I think)!

It was maybe Thursday when he was like: by the way, my flight lands around noon on Sunday and I was like: this Sunday?! No way?! (But, like, an excited no way!)

Talk about the BEST gift on earth, after a few tough weeks.

I joked that he was secretly showing up for a wellness check on me, ha. And though that's definitely not the case, I suspect he did arrive on midday Sunday when he could have delayed until Monday--all so he could lay eyes on me or allegedly have some quality time, ha.

Though, to be fair, he recently had his own health scare. So maybe we're just peas-in-a-pod Hot Messes!














He's actually the one who inadvertently convinced me to finally cave and get an AppleWatch that can help me track all sorts of lovely health things, and he's been helping me learn the ropes (along with Chica, who's had one for a few years). It was a riot for us to swap heart monitoring app tips, like we're octogenarians, haha. 

I keep saying we're too young to already be talking about our health this much!! ;)

Anywho...I can't even begin to describe how his visit was a massive mood-booster. Hysterically, one of his colleagues also got to visit a sibling just before the conference and shared that it was "soul good" to have some sister time and older bro responded with" "Same, girl. Same." So, obviously, it was not just me who enjoyed a little special time!

It was also so joyful for him to be here for a quick day that did not revolve around a holiday!

The kiddos got to show off their refreshed rooms (older bro hasn't been to our house in, like, four years!), their instrument playing and dance numbers, and all the good things. We cooked, we did domestic things, we did three Coda walks in the short 20-ish hours he was with us, and...it did my heart such good (physically and metaphorically, ha).

As a side benefit: it was glorious to have a reason to tidy up the joint, a bit! It's not been dirty around here, per se, but...there have been piles and odds and ends post-Christmas that have been lingering, and it was amazing to have a purpose behind tackling it--and unearthing the kitchen counter! And the laundry...oh, the laundry pile! I tackled so much of it!

All that said...by the time I dropped him at the conference center just before lunch on Monday, I felt so super-boosted and like I was ahead of the game and not behind for the first time in ages. I think just the fact that I've managed to post a couple of times in the last few days says it all!

In other we're-forcing-some-joy news of the last week or two...

I think Chica has made it through the worst of her High School decision-making drama that was reallllllly weighing her down. 

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She's had to make a handful of really tough choices, but, now that they're made, things are looking up! Despite super-early mornings and the launch of her track season this week, I've seen some lightness creep back in. I even captured her laughing and being insanely silly last week, and I was like: WHOA. Have we made it through the tough stretch (at least, for now??).
















She's been enjoying some new little mental health journaling (party of what I gifted her in honor of that recent school award) and it's really cute. She selects a theme word for each day and writes down positive things, and I love that it's sparking some joy. 

She's also taken weekend time for some smaller joys like baking and coloring, and I can't tell you how happy it makes me that I've encouraged these kinds of activities she can continue all throughout her life, if they serve her. 














It's good to see her smiling, more. I'm doing my best to keep her on a more even keel. Here's hoping we can have more positive days than negative!

Other January sparks of joy...

Some movie watching (especially over the ice day extended weekend)! We finished the Harry Potter movies (the younger two hadn't seen the last few movies) and started the Iron Man journey...and that same weekend, when we were virtual church-ing because of the weather, we even managed a tiny little Valentine craft. Probably too juvenile for my kids these days, but, still!

















I know that for me, at least, it's doing wonders to feel the days extending by just a minute or two each week as we march onward in terms of seasons. Additionally, the kiddos have a three-day weekend next week, and it's just a few short weeks until official Spring Break. So crazy!

I don't think we're the only ones who often feel the doldrums of January. It's such a rough month, for so many reasons, and this year was obviously amplified in so many ways, but...we've made it to February, and I'm determined to make it a GOOD MONTH.

Okay, peeps.

I can't believe I'm saying this, but...I think I'm kind of officially caught up on this here blog??? Anything I haven't shared is just going to be left in the rearview, m'kay??? 

Onward and upward in 2026!

Happy Hump Day (and Double Post Day!), peeps!

Over and out.